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Are You Ready to Be Next?

Posted by ywmguest on December 18, 2009

We love our network of working women. YWM encourages you to use our unique gifts for career advancement. Today’s guest blogger is Leanna Cruz.

You may have heard Warren Buffet say “if you wait until you see the Robin, spring will already be over.”

Two weeks ago several women were promoted as the Chairman of General Motors Co. Ed Whitacre looks to change the culture of the auto giant. A female auto analyst says that she was surprised by the number of women who were promoted – but hasn’t the fight for such action been going on since 1848? And didn’t the fight to give more women the opportunity to sit in leadership seats step up in 1964? Well, it’s about time. Now that the ball is rolling, will you be ready when the opportunity presents itself or will it pass you by?

Other than cronyism, women should consider the possibility that not enough of us have or actively exercise the soft skills which, when combined with professional skills, will get us the positions to which we aspire.

Promoting women is part of Whitacre’s strategy to hasten the speed to the best actions to put GM back on top. Among the reasons he attributes to the slow turnaround is a corporate culture where people were afraid to speak.

Political correctness as silence or inauthentic positive feedback may be the downfall of many companies. In order to avoid hurting someone’s ego or offending them by opposing their ideas, political correctness has become a norm (and so has troubled businesses). Critical feedback at all levels is avoided. But you can not possibly make the best decision or employ the best strategy if someone is withholding information. The new norm should be openness to critical feedback as an opportunity to improve and a willingness to give critical feedback to ensure success of the group.

GM has been referred to as a sleeping giant and resistant to cultural change. But change is the name of the game. Since the shake up in the economy, it is clear that there is no “business as usual.” Companies are looking for catalysts to create a culture of innovation and acceptance of rapid change at every level in order to maintain their competitive edge.

Are you ready to use your unique traits and share your unique perspective to reveal innovative solutions and be the catalyst your department or company needs and wants from a diverse workforce?

Rapid change calls for rapid response and it seems the GM board wanted to speed things up. Remaining in a phase of analyzing and planning, preparing to do something is not going to cut it. Where on the one hand some people are impulsive and make unnecessary mistakes, some are thinkers and analyze a situation to death and do not act.

When faced with change, caution is a common response- slowing down to feel in control. Paralysis sets in and problems multiply. During change companies need speed and responsiveness throughout every level. Companies are in need of thoughtful risk takers, preferably to respond to avert a crisis, to be proactive. But if you need to react to a crisis the confidence to act swiftly is paramount.

Especially during times of change, having the skills to get the job done is not all that is required of a leader. Companies are looking for change agents, with the ability to extrapolate innovative ideas with a sense of urgency. Ladies be prepared because many companies are flattening their organizational structure. The move from a pyramid structure to a flatter structure means there is a need for more leaders throughout, not just at the top.

GM has responded to its need for change by promoting several women and is one of a few companies setting the ball in motion down a steep hill so opportunities are on the way. Be prepared before the opportunity presents itself; it looks as though there are many on the horizon.

Leanna Cruz is editorial director for Positively Magazine a personal and professional development magazine. The Positively Successful issue has several articles and stories with ideas to tailor your career to maximize your elevation to the C-Suite.

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News to Chew On: Link Love for Lunch

Posted by gansie on December 17, 2009

Annise Parker wins for Houston mayor. Houston is now the largest city to elect an openly gay candidate for mayor. [Houston Chronicle]

Firedoglake calls for Susan G. Komen for the Cure to fire spokesperson Hadassah Lieberman for her connections to big PhRMA and her senator husband. [Salon]

200 green business ideas. [Fast Company]

Cincinnati Bengals receiver Chris Henry dies in what authorities are calling a domestic dispute with his fiance. [ESPN]

Senate passes historic funding for violence against women programs. [The Baynet]

Abuse of immigrant workers (women, many underage) by a meat plant – SHOCKING! [Women's eNews]

Top 5 green jobs stories of 2009. [Mother Nature Network]

Brazen Careerist and PayScale release study on best companies for Gen Y workers. [PR Web]

Kurt Vonnegut is now an HR professional [Punk Rock HR]

Employers more worried about brain drain than delayed retirement, says MetLife study. [Insurance Broadcasting]

Debunking generational differences at work. [Nonprofit Quarterly]

Plenty of women are up for the 2009  Eater of the Year, including Rachel Maddow, Meryl Streep and Michelle Obama. [Endless Simmer]

Chronic discrimination in the workplace against women and children still endemic. [HuffPo]

Man who punched Jersey Shore‘s Snookie in the face apologizes. [Jezebel]

Hearing on rape kit backlog legislation is step in right direction. [Human Rights Watch]

Should working caregivers as a protected class? [SEIU blog]

“But grandma, I don’t get what the big deal is with you being Secretary of State — aren’t all women secretaries?” —Madeline Albright’s four-year-old granddaughter [AAUW Dialog]

Men against rape: Sen. Franken’s anti rape amendment survives in Senate committee. [HuffPo]

Women reshaping union agendas to stress work-life issues. [Human Resources Executive]

Now women’s success is a negative: civil rights panel names 19 colleges it will investigate for gender discrimination. [The Chronicle]

Finding help for women vets with difficult problems including homelessness [Post and Courier]

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Quite The Banner Year

Posted by egehl on December 16, 2009

Before I write this blog, a disclaimer: I know women aren’t saints and cheat just like men.  Historically, men have gotten most of the flak for infidelity.  And research is now showing that women appear to be closing the adultery gap, especially younger women who are cheating on their spouses nearly as often as men. 

However with that said, in the high profile world of celebrities and entertainment men have certainly made a name for themselves as of late.  I think many of us would agree that 2009 was quite the banner year for men behaving badly. 

On a recent trip to Buenos Aires, I thought so this was the infamous journey Mark Sanford took instead of hiking the supposed Appalachian Trail.  And it’s both sad and ironic listening to David Letterman tell jokes about Tiger Woods “to stop calling him for advice”.  Pot calling the kettle black perhaps?

This year it seemed when one media fire storm ended there was a new one right around the corner to pick back where we left off, as if we weren’t completely satisfied with only a few sordid stories of infidelity

Whether it’s a disappearance act, political affair, over eager sports caster or too many mistresses to count, what’s clear is that men in high profile positions need to rethink their brazenness and poor decisions.  News flash to all of you—eventually you will get caught.  It’s just a matter of time. 

I feel for the stream of wives who are dealing with the consequences and downfalls of their well known husbands.  No wonder CBS created a show called “The Good Wife”.

The latest Tiger Woods scandal has blown up into something bigger than any of us, even Tiger, ever imagined.  It shows that being one of the most powerful sports figures doesn’t shield you from a fall from grace. 

The question then becomes, what do they all deserve? A slap on the wrist, disappearing endorsement deals or the punishment they give themselves.  It’s hard to say and apparently the shame and media spotlight that comes with one of these scandals isn’t enough to prevent the reckless behavior from happening again. 

Of course there is much speculation about why famous men cheat.  The reasons range from a sense of entitlement, the thrill of the chase, increased opportunities to cheat, a sense of superiority and belief they can get away with it, inability to resist the temptation constantly thrown at them, and because well, they can.  Whatever the reason it doesn’t seem to be changing and it’s even more tragic when the person is a role model. 

As we all know 2009 won’t be the last year we hear about infidelity and broken marriages.  However I hope the steady stream becomes a trickle in the new year.

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Question for Gen Y Women: What bugs you about older colleagues?

Posted by knbarrett on December 15, 2009

You can post your musings on Young Women Misbehavin’, Facebook, Twitter or email me at kbarrett@bpwfoundation.org.

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Tell Us What You Want, What You Really Really Want

Posted by knbarrett on December 14, 2009

“&%$#”

My Boomer colleague had a special talent for making my name sound like a four letter word.

There was a set pattern of behavior. In meetings, I would provide constructive criticism and she would bark my name and then discredit anything I said. I’m typically up for a good verbal spar over thoughts and ideas, but the way my colleague snapped at me in meetings was worse than the spankings I received as a child. At least when my parents punished me, they had the decency to escort me out of the room. They weren’t believers in public shaming. I tried to see the situation from the Boomer’s point of view.  It probably wasn’t the ideal situation for her. I was her daughter’s age. . . and co-manager. She reported to me and a Gen Xer. Feedback from the Xer was always welcome. As a Gen Yer, though,  I was to be seen and not heard.

This week’s “Tell Us What you Want, What you Really Really Want” theme is inter-generational workplace dynamics.  Complaints about Gen Y workers are not in short supply. The list of annoying Gen Y habits seems endless. For starters, we’re a bunch of demanding, self-entitled whiners. I hate to disappoint. So, this week, I’m asking you to be a Yner.

I want to know what bugs you about older colleagues. What are the challenges to working with people of different ages?

You can post your musings on Young Women Misbehavin’, Facebook, Twitter or email me at kbarrett@bpwfoundation.org.

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The End of an Era

Posted by egehl on December 14, 2009

Love her or hate her, she’s an icon.  And for die hard fans it came as a shock to find out that Oprah will be leaving her talk show in 2011. 

I must admit I’ve watched a lot of Oprah in my time.  Most of my Oprah watching happened during the years I Tivo’ed her show everyday (yes I know, a bit much).  During that time I certainly knew about every celebrity, social problem facing the country and learned why The Secret could change my life.  Now after getting rid of Tivo I only catch her occasionally, and must say I still enjoy her talk show more than any other. 

Oprah’s rise to fame is quite amazing.  She came from a poor family in a small rural town in Mississippi and through a love of education, hard work and perseverance worked her way up the ladder in the entertainment world. 

She was reared by her grandmother on a farm where she “began her broadcasting career” by learning to read aloud and perform recitations at the age of three. From age six to 13, she lived in Milwaukee with her mother. After suffering abuse and molestation, she ran away and was sent to a juvenile detention home at the age of 13, only to be denied admission because all the beds were filled. As a last resort, she was sent to Nashville to live under her father’s strict discipline.

Her broadcasting career began at age 17, when she was hired by WVOL radio in Nashville, and two years later she signed on with WTVF-TV in Nashville as a reporter/anchor.  Thereafter she moved to Baltimore to join another news cast as a co-anchor and eventually went to Chicago to host a faltering local talk show.  That talk show turned into the hottest show in town and soon expanded into one hour, The Oprah Winfrey Show.  And the rest is history. 

Since then her star power and media prowess has only continued to grow and expand. Every year Forbes names Oprah in the top 5 of their Celebrity 100 list.  Her earnings last year came in just under $300 million thanks to her talk show, monthly magazine and $55 million deal with XM satellite radio.  She recently debuted the Oprah Winfrey Network in partnership with Discovery Communication, and her Harpo production company helped create Dr. Phil and The Rachael Ray Show. 

It’s amazing the amount of influence she holds through all of her communication vehicles.  As a woman, I am proud of her success.  She has remained a powerful figure in the media for almost 25 years and that deserves some kudos.  There is no doubt Oprah has opened doors for countless women who have pursued television careers.  Regardless of how you feel about her personality and views, it’s an achievement to maintain such a high level status in our ever changing, fickle entertainment industry. 

Oprah’s ability to secure high profile guests will be hard to reproduce.  She has a unique way of getting her guests to open up in a very honest and forthright way, which humanizes and exposes them.  These interviews along with her giant giveaways keep the show unpredictable, compelling and a fun distraction for an afternoon. 

Like many others, I will miss seeing the world through Oprah’s eyes.  If you felt out of the loop with pop culture, current events and controversial issues you could usually get caught up with a show or two.  But never fear the media mogul will certainly stick around through her magazine, radio show and other television programs. 

She will be a hard act to follow and it will be interesting to see who tries.

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Jobs, Jobs, Jobs

Posted by espressodog on December 11, 2009

When they are not talking about health care reform, Afghanistan or climate change, policymakers are talking about jobs. Although recent news is better – the unemployment rate dropped from 10.2% to 10% in November – this has been the worst recession in terms of job loss since World War II.

Some of the hardest-hit groups are teenagers, people of color, those with a high school education or less and unmarried women. Unmarried women represent less than half of all women workers, but they represent 60 percent of unemployed women.  Unmarried women who head families, now have an unemployment rate of 12.6 percent.

Last week, President Obama hosted a Jobs Summit and has proposed more tax cuts for small business, investing in roads, bridges and infrastructure, and creating jobs through energy efficiency and clean energy investments. The president noted that even though the economy is now growing, the pace of growth does not look like it will be high enough to put the 15.4 million unemployed workers back on the job. Congress is expected to take action on a Jobs Bill sometime in early 2010.

The federal government has three main job creation tools at its disposal — government spending on goods and services, changes in taxes and hiring labor directly. Experts and policymakers have proposed numerous strategies to create and retain jobs such as tax credits, public service employment and the expansion of work-sharing/short-time compensation. Tax incentives directed at employers including tax cuts on business profits and investments were all already instituted as part of the Recovery Act. The Administration is now proposing tax incentives to encourage firms to hire new workers.

Policymakers are also focusing on promoting green jobs as a part of the overall recovery agenda. Despite the struggling economy, employers in several industries are facing severe shortage of skilled workers including information technology and renewable energy – industries which are considered non-traditional for women.

Women continue to make inroads into non-traditional occupations. As more women enter jobs that were once dominated by men, many jobs that were defined as non-traditional for women in 1988 are no longer non-traditional in 2008, including  chemist, physician, lawyer, and bailiff.

BPW Foundation strives to increase the number of women in better-paying, non-traditional fields and ensure that careers of the future are pursued equally by all genders. The Moving from Red to Green: Working Women in the Green Economy pilot project is ensuring that women are recruited, trained and retained in the sustainable jobs of the future.

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The Plight of the Young Worker

Posted by knbarrett on December 10, 2009

Though stereotyped as a cohort of eager, overachievers, Gen Y is not recesssion-proof.  It’s a tough time to be a young worker. A BusinessWeek article declared Gen Y the “Lost Generation.”

Two studies by the AFL-CIO and Demos provide staggering statistics. Here’s what we know about the plight of young workers:

  • During the second quarter of 2009, the unemployment rate for young workers under 25 was 31.9 percent. Young people of color and those without a college degree suffer the most  from unemployment and underemployment.
  • Only 31 percent of young workers make enough money to cover their bills and put money away in savings.
  • Approximately one and three young workers does not have health care coverage. Fifty percent of uninsured can’t afford health care and over 30 percent say their employer doesn’t offer it.

So what do young workers need?

Robert Kuttner argues that we need “An Economic Compact for the Young.”  Young workers short-term and long-term economic prospects are in jeopardy. Kuttner suggests that the “compact” include the following:

  1. Affordable Education
  2. Universal Healthcare
  3. Living-Wage Jobs

Significant commitment and resources are required to improve this generation’s economic trajectory.

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Hoping to Celebrate America’s Diversity

Posted by gansie on December 10, 2009

It was what I like to call an off-off year. 2003 featured few political races, in few states, and none of them for President, House or Senate. But that’s the year that I graduated college so that’s the year I joined a campaign.

In the midst of a week-long campaign training through EMILY’s List‘s Campaign Corps program, participants were asked to choose a few races to be placed on. EMILY’s List identified progressive and viable candidates throughout the country and would be sending off their recent Campaign Corps graduates to these races.

Like I said, only a few states were possibilities: New Jersey, Virginia and Texas and maybe 4 or 5 others. I’d already lived in New Jersey for most of my life and for four years I lived just north of Virginia in DC so I opted for Texas.

I took this campaign job as not only an opportunity to learn about politics, but to explore the country and meet new people.

After days of driving, Alegra and I landed in Houston. It was August. It was HOT. Like the hottest environment I’ve ever been in. Hot. Hot. Hot.

I’d only known Alegra for that short training week but we had plenty of time to share stories and to talk about our pending jobs. We both couldn’t believe we’d be living in Houston for at least 3 months. She was also from the coast (San Jose) and we had no idea what to expect living in the reddest of red states, Texas (although this was before we assigned states colors.)

What we also couldn’t figure out was how Annise Parker would win Houston City Controller. Annise is an open lesbian. Democrat. In Texas. How could this work?!?!

We didn’t have much time to think about it. We were thrown into a 7-day, 12-hour-a-day, work week. We also had a campaign office pet, Gwennie the guinea pig, to care for.

While we never became accustomed to the oppressive heat, we did realize how possible it was for Annise to win. She’d already been re-elected as a city council member.  She had many organizational and press endorsements. She and Grant, the campaign manager, collected a fantastic following of volunteers, many of them also gay.

Houston is a huge, huge city. The 4th largest in the country to be exact. If Annise won she’d govern more people than some state-wide officials. Houston is incredibly diverse, housing all ethnicities and even some dudes wearing cowboy hats and boots. I learned a lot on this campaign: how to hold down a job, how to live on basically no money and little sleep, how to cook, how to not talk in my very fast Jersey accent and how to handle calls of bigotry.

While most of the city didn’t take her sexual orientation into consideration when deciding how to vote, some did. And it hurt. But that was the minority and although Texas may have an ugly connotation for many, I will always remember the kindheartedness of Annise’s supporters. Annie won that race in a December run-off (doubling my expected time in Houston.)

Let me explain the run-off. Basically, Houston doesn’t run their city elections by party. There is no party affiliation on the ballot making primaries non-existent. The general election usually hosts about 4 or 5 candidates and to be deemed winner the candidate must win a majority (so the general is more like a non-partisan primary.) With more than 2 people running in a race, it’s tough to get to that percentage. While Annise did win the most votes, she didn’t reach a majority so we were entered into the run-off (which is really more like a general election in other states.) Annise also won the run-off. It was awesome.

I left Texas soon after but my dedication to LGBT rights continued.

I think gay rights is the civil rights issue of our generation. And I believe that gays in America should not be able to be fired from their job for being gay.  In fact, in 29 states it is legal to fire someone for being gay. I know. It is CRAZY.

Annise won re-election for controller and is now in a run-off election for MAYOR!

MAYOR!

While much of the (liberal) country is deciding that gays do not have the same rights as other Americans, Houstonians may be electing a lesbian to be the leader of their city.

Annise is only up 5.5% in the polls and her opponent has been accused of being tied to some anti-gay groups. Election day is this Saturday, December 12th. (If you know anyone that lives in Houston and hasn’t voted yet. Yes, I said yet. Houston allows early voting.)

If Annise wins, Houston will be the largest city to have elected an openly-gay candidate. It’s something all of Texas could be proud of. America could be proud too.We could finally be embracing our country’s beautiful diversity (again).

Go Annise!

And I just have to give another plug for EMILY’s List and Campaign Corps. This video features a bunch of my friends and fellow campaign staffers, including Annise.

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Question for Gen Y Women: How do you define success at work?

Posted by knbarrett on December 9, 2009

You can post your musings here on Young Women Misbehavin’, Facebook, Twitter or email me at kbarrett@bpwfoundation.org.

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