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Remembering Haiti Over the Long-Term

Posted by egehl on January 20, 2010

It’s devastating to watch the aftermath of the earthquake in Haiti unfold before our eyes. I feel such a sense of sadness for the people experiencing this unimaginable disaster and their situation hits close to home.

Following Hurricane Katrina, Haitian American writer Edwidge Danticat said New Orleans looked more like Haiti than the US. New Orleans and Haiti are connected by geography, history, architecture, family, and now a mass devastation. They are linked not just by a shared experience of disasters, but also by a first-hand understanding of the ways in which oppression interacts with these catastrophes. Both areas have had to endure a similar history of persistent poverty and inequity, and now a long term recovery to become whole again.

In our time of need following Hurricane Katina Haiti supported the Gulf Coast despite being the poorest nation in the western hemisphere. The Haitian government and local businesses donated $36,000 toward Katrina relief efforts, and Haitian-American volunteers from Florida traveled to Louisiana and Mississippi to aid in the rebuilding effort.

I am immensely proud of the level of generosity Americans always show during a time of disaster. The outpouring of donations, funding, and man power is heartwarming, especially given the recent economic downturn. However while the level of attention and generosity is justifiably high, what happens 6 months from now? 1 year from now? 5 years from now?

In an interview between Brian Williams with NBC Nightly News and Bill Clinton, the two discussed concerns about the long-term recovery.  Brian Williams remarked that Haitian citizens are worried about how they will be able to rebuild their communities.  After my first hand experience with a post disaster recovery, I couldn’t help but think what will happen when the camera lights go away and the world goes back to their everyday lives.

Those of us in New Orleans know all too well that there is a big difference between immediate relief and long-term recovery. I think Hurricane Katrina gave the United States a rude awakening that disaster relief takes weeks, but a long-term recovery takes years. After almost 5 years, New Orleans is still in an intense recovery as it tries to rebuild vital infrastructure such as housing, hospitals and schools necessary for a healthy community. And New Orleans is in the United States, one of the richest countries in the world, and it’s still struggling. Haiti is an extremely poor nation that has suffered even worse devastation than what New Orleans endured so their ability to come back from this disaster will be an immense challenge.

The aftermath of a disaster is newsworthy and heart wrenching. It draws attention with painful round-the-clock coverage, pleas for donations and assistance, and startling images. It’s absolutely vital that a strong and effective immediate recovery take place because lives need to be saved, and relief efforts will set the course for how effective the long term recovery will be.

However, immediate relief happens over the course of weeks while the long-term recovery will take years. And while the short-term relief is grueling and intense, the long-term recovery requires an equal amount of momentum and persistence. The United States and rest of the world must be mindful of this because Haiti is faced will a long road ahead.

Haiti will need our help a year from now when the attention has faded and immediate funding has dwindled. Long-term recoveries take persistence, ingenuity and passion to rebuild a community. Over time it’s the individual people, small businesses and local charities that will have to bear the brunt of cleaning up and repairing the lives of countless people. I hope American communities, like New Orleans, with lessons learned will reach out to Haitian organizations to offer their support so that this country can not only recover, but build better than before.

In addition to the infrastructure aspect of a long term recovery, there is the human aspect. Women were forgotten following Hurricane Katrina, which was terrible since many of the storm victims were single mothers. For a full and equitable recovery to happen, gender analysis must be taken into consideration because female disaster victims have special needs. I encourage you to support women run organizations and those organizations that will help women rebuild their lives. Women will be at the backbone of repairing the many families that have been torn apart.

International aid and assistance must take a long-term view of this crisis and strive to rebuild a stronger Haiti—one that includes a government that can ensure the basic human rights of all Haitians and a nation that is empowered to demand those rights. If Hurricane Katrina taught us anything it’s that Haiti will be in crisis for years to come. Don’t forget this country and help support a fair and equitable recovery for all of its citizens.

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Happy Birthday

Posted by joyinhome on January 18, 2010

You know it doesn’t make much sense
There ought to be a law against
Anyone who takes offense
At a day in your celebration
‘Cause we all know in our minds
That there outta be a time
That we can set aside
To show just how much we love you
And I’m sure you will agree
It couldn’t fit more perfectly
Than to have a world party

On the day you came to be

 
Happy birthday to ya
Happy birthday to ya
Happy birthday to ya

Happy birthday to ya
Happy birthday to ya
Happy birthday to ya

I just never understood
How a man who died for good
Could not have a day that would
Be set aside for his recognition
Because it should never be
Just because some cannot see
The dream as clear as he
That they should make it become an illusion
And we all know everything
That he stood for time will bring
For in peace our hearts will sing
Thanks to Martin Luther King

Happy birthday to ya
Happy birthday to ya
Happy birthday to ya
(Repeat)

Why has there never been a holiday
Where peace is celebrated all throughout the world?

The time is overdue
For people like me and you
Who know the way to truth
Is love and unity to all God’s children
It should be a great event
And the whole day should be spent
In full remembrance
Of those who lived and died for the oneness of all people
So let us all begin
We know that love can win
Let it out don’t hold it in
Sing it loud as you can!

 
Happy birthday to ya 
Happy birthday to ya 
Happy birthday to ya ooohh
Happy birthday to ya
Happy birthday to ya
Happy birthday to ya ooohh
Happy birthday to ya
Happy birthday to ya
Happy birthday to ya ooohh
Happy birthday to ya
Happy birthday to ya
Happy birthday to ya ooohh

(Stevie Wonder speaking)
We know the key to unity of all people
Is in the dream that you had so long ago
That lives in all of the hearts of people
That believe in unity
We’ll make the dream become a reality
I know we will
Because our hearts tell us so….
I LOVE YA HAPPY BIRTHDAY YALL AND MANY MORE!!!!!!

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Help Haiti

Posted by joyinhome on January 14, 2010

This country gets crushed time and time again. Donate… help in any way you can.

I will save the politics and history lesson for later. I am glad to see the world coming together to help our Haitian brothers and sisters. Let’s keep it going…

Social media is working overtime to raise funds for Haiti. Musician Wyclef Jean’s nonprofit was created in 2005 to help his native country. Text “Yele” to 501501 and a $5 donation will be made to the Haitian disaster fund or visit www.yele.org. Red Cross is making good use of its Twitter and Facebook accounts to secure donations.

Follow #haiti on Twitter for updates!

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Remembering a Colleague and Friend

Posted by egehl on January 13, 2010

Before I had the pleasure of meeting Mariwyn Heath I knew through her amazing resume of accomplishments that she was a powerhouse within the women’s community. However it wasn’t until I met her in person that I also got to know a very vibrant, spunky, witty woman who exuded passion through her pores about issues she had tirelessly worked on for decades.

I was a bright eyed late 20’s professional just out of graduate school when I decided to commit myself to fighting for women’s equality. I didn’t know what to expect, but was excited to meet some of the trailblazers that had come before me. During my tenure in the women’s community I was fortunate to have met many wonderful feminist leaders, however Mariwyn always stuck out.

While she possessed an amazing commitment and passion for her causes that might seem intimidating, she was always kind and approachable. Each time I saw her, I always got a big hug and a jovial smile. Mariwyn was a unique kind of leader that was inspiring while at the same time could put you at ease through her infectious sense of humor and charm. I always appreciated her honesty and forthrightness. She wasn’t afraid to tell the truth and often that was needed. And from a policy standpoint she was very knowledgeable about the policy and legislative process, which was invaluable.

From the moment I got to know her, I could sense her interest and support of young professionals and her desire to mentor them so that they could carry the torch. Mariwyn’s devotion to promoting passage of the Equal Rights Amendment and to improving the status of women both locally and nationally was inspiring to those of us just learning the ropes.

I have no doubt that throughout Mariwyn’s life and career she influenced many young women to carry her causes forward. I know she has inspired me.

You will be missed Mariwyn and thank you for the legacy you left behind. 

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Turn Your Stereo On and Your Stereotypes Off

Posted by gansie on January 13, 2010

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Woman Misbehavin’: Miep Gies, 1909-2010

Posted by gansie on January 12, 2010

“[You don't have to] be a hero to do your human duty. I am afraid nobody would ever help other people, because who is a hero? I was not. I was just an ordinary housewife and secretary.”
[AP, NYT via Jezebel]

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Find Yourself in Service

Posted by joyinhome on January 12, 2010

Forty years ago, Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. challenged us to build a more perfect union and showed us that everyone has a role to make America what it ought to be. We still have major work to do to realize Dr. King’s dream. 

Dr. King’s birthday will be recognized on January 18th. A National Day of Service will be led on this day by the Corporation for National and Community Service.

The needs are great, many Americans are hurting, and we each have a personal responsibility. We need to help renew our nation through service – on the MLK Holiday, and throughout the year. Service helps to address serious problems and brings people together to strengthen their communities.  

Get involved:

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Remembering a Woman Who Made History

Posted by sherrysaunders on January 11, 2010

Business and Professional Woman’s Foundation and women across the country have lost a friend and avid supporter of women’s rights and workplace equity.  Mariwyn Heath was a woman who understood that women needed to misbehave, speak out and act to create meaningful social change.  

Mariwyn D. Heath, a long time BPW/USA member and BPW Foundation supporter, spent her entire professional life working to advance women in government, business, education and community life. She was a role model for working women seeking to balance their lives as wives, mothers, business women and community advocates.

For more than five decades, Mariwyn devoted herself to promoting passage of the Equal Rights Amendment and to improving the status of women. She paved the way for all of us with her tireless work for women’s rights and employment opportunities. She was a consultant on the Equal Rights Amendment (ERA) to both the Ford and Carter Administrations and presented ERA testimony before the U.S. House Judiciary Committee.

In recognition of her work, BPW/USA created the Mariwyn Heath Equal Rights Amendment Award, which was given to an individual/group who demonstrated significant support of equal rights for women. 

Mariwyn received various appointments from five Ohio governors, both Democratic and Republican and received numerous honors and awards including the 2001 BPW/USA Women Mean Business Award, selection to the Ohio Women’s Hall of Fame, and a listing in Who’s Who of American Women.  

We must always remember we stand on the shoulders of those women who sacrificed for us in the past and Mariwyn was one of those women.  Thank you Mariwyn, you will not be forgotten.

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Lessons Learned from the “Happiness Project”

Posted by egehl on January 11, 2010

It’s that time of year again—when we all make New Year’s resolutions about the things we want to do more, get better at, or be more mindful of.  Mine are: accept more invitations, take advantage of my city, enjoy the arts, take gym classes and stay true to myself regardless of the setbacks.

Resolutions are a great exercise of self-examination and exploration, but how can we make them more meaningful and last beyond January?

One woman did when she decided to launch the “Happiness Project” which entailed setting monthly resolutions for herself and launching a blog to track her experience. The goal of each monthly resolution was to test what worked to increase happiness and appreciation of her life.

Gretchen Rubin’s blog has now turned into a best selling book entitled “The Happiness Project”.  The concept of the project is an interesting one because it examines something we all experience at one point or another: a pervasive feeling of going through the motions and not truly embracing life, especially the everyday minute aspects. 

Gretchen describes her reason for starting the project which was, “it wasn’t because I was depressed or having a midlife crisis, but instead suffering from midlife malaise — a recurrent sense of discontent and almost a feeling of disbelief“.

The Psychology major in me thinks this aspect of unhappiness is very interesting because it’s not often explored.

Typically the extreme levels of discontent, such as depression, take the front seat because a person‘s health and well being are at stake.  And while depression is a serious condition and deserves a lot of attention, it’s worth exploring other levels of unhappiness as well. Often people can be generally happy about their circumstances however feel a sense of mundane emptiness. They suffer from this uneasy feeling that something is missing and spend a lot of energy on feeling unfulfilled and dissatisfied.  As a result, they end up losing a sense of gratefulness and joy in their everyday lives.

The premise of the Happiness Project was to examine happiness through the lens of how humans can think more about what they are doing so that the choices they make bring their values to the forefront. How can we feel grateful for an ordinary day and let go of reoccurant annoyances to maintain a more universal perspective?

When the Happiness Project launched as a blog, Gretchen set a monthly resolution and tested what worked to make her feel happier. For example, January was to boost energy and February was to remember love. She decided on the monthly resolution based on the areas she wanted to be better at and could reasonably work on in a month.

Her year long experiment of trying out happiness studies and theories helped her to realize that it’s the mindfulness of living in the present moment that shifts feelings. Mindfulness pervades everything such as being mindful of what you eat, how you act, what you give, etc. The more you think about what you are doing and can embrace it, the more you make choices that reflect who you strive to be.

Her idea is catching on quickly, as people have created Happiness Projects throughout the country.

As we begin a new year and set forth to meet our resolutions, whatever they may be, there are lessons to be learned from the Happiness Project. Resolutions can be long lasting and incremental, and not just a fleeting thought at the beginning of the year. And perhaps they can encompass how to be more mindful and aware of the transcendent value of embracing individual moments.

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Realism vs Racism?…

Posted by joyinhome on January 11, 2010

The comments were racist, PERIOD.

So what now?

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