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An Ounce of Prevention

Posted by joyinhome on July 19, 2010

Access to quality and equitable health care continues to be an issue for many in this country, especially for women and families. Additionally our health care system has many layers that must be addressed. The Affordable Care Act seeks to tackle one such layer.

The Surgeon General Regina Benjamin recently authored a blog post regarding the Affordable Care Act.

As a doctor who has cared for patients of all ages, I’ve seen the power of prevention in action; but I’ve also seen many missed opportunities to prevent unnecessary illness and suffering. For too long, the cost of regular checkups and screenings have led many families to avoid going to the doctor, leading to a higher risk of a chronic illness, and more costly care down the line. 

If we want to truly reform health care in our country, we need to make sure our health care system provides Americans with the care they need to stop illness and disease before it starts.  Chronic diseases, such as heart disease, cancer, and diabetes, are responsible for 7 of 10 deaths among Americans each year – and often are preventable. 

The Affordable Care Act highlights regarding prevention.

  • New health plans on or after September 23, 2010, are required to cover recommended preventive services without charging a deductible, copayment or coinsurance.
  • The first-ever National Prevention and Health Promotion Strategy.
  • Investment into policies to increase the number of primary care professionals to help ensure access to preventive services.
  • Easier and more affordable for those covered by Medicare and Medicaid to access preventive screenings and services.

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Interesting Strategy to Fight HIV

Posted by joyinhome on July 16, 2010

This morning I heard a concert promotion on the radio. At the tail end, it said to “Go VIP for HIV!” Concert attendees could purchase a ticket for VIP access at a higher price and a portion of the proceeds would go to Metro Teen AIDS, a local group that promotes awareness of HIV/AIDS among teens. How great is that!

First step, creativity, next step a cure.

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News to Chew On: Link Love for Lunch

Posted by sherrysaunders on July 16, 2010

Are we dealing with Gen Y in the best way? [TalkingAboutGenerations]

Is LeBron true to his generation? [Bradenton.com]

Boxing for women in the Olympics? [Wall Street Journal Online]

TVs best loved career women [Forbes.com]

Congress largely exempts self from Vet employment provisions [Politico]

Requiting military elite to lead in business [Amercian Chronicle]

Retires will be outliving their retirement [Washington Post]

Higher Education and the pay gap [AACU]

Women stand to benefit from new PTSD change [Statesman]

Vote on Kagan delayed a week [Legal Times]  

Why can’t career women just be women – don’t distinguish men [Salon]

Poll: Workplaces support individual’s with disabilities [wfnetwork]

Workplace flexibility addresses workers caregiving needs. [HR.BLR.Com]

Some vet groups find trauma rule lacking [New York Times]

 Growing green jobs from an economists viewpoint [NY Times Blogs]

 Women owned small business will create 5+ million jobs by 2018 [SmalBizDom]

 Even female law partners suffer wage disparity.  [Newsweek]

 Kagan the post gender justice?  [NPR]

Women in non traditional role do heavy lifting in rebuilding Haiti [Cleveland.com]

Tenure track is tough for working mothers [Washington Post]

How much do women spend on shoes?  For all of you shoe lovers  [Mainstreet]

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Eating Virtually

Posted by gansie on July 16, 2010

You probably know this already but I also keep a food blog. I haven’t just been exploring my new virtual life on YWM, but also on Endless Simmer.

When I first started working from home—SO CLOSE TO MY FULLY STOCKED FRIDGE—I was afraid I’d be dangerously snacking all day. But as I’ve gotten used to my home office, I’ve also gotten used to a normal work-from-home eating routine. I might snack a bit more, but it’s usually fresh fruit from the Mt. Pleasant Farmers’ Market, and not the chocolate I’ve stashed away in my desk drawer.

Here’s more of my virtual eating revelations.

Continued: I’m Not Eating Ice Cream Every 15 Minutes [Endless Simmer]

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When Actions Speak Louder Than Words

Posted by egehl on July 15, 2010

“He handled issues including abortion issues, including several other issues, but not women’s affairs”.  This would be the response my Senator gave on July 7th when asked about his disgraced former aide, Brent Furer, who was arrested for attacking his girlfriend with a knife in 2008 and only recently resigned from Senator Vitter’s staff.

Let’s see, what’s happening in Louisiana this week?  Just in case you can’t keep track.  Well, there’s that whole oil spill disaster thing that’s still ongoing not to mention the last minute thrown together Oil Spill Commission hearing.  Yesterday federal officials announced indictments against four police officers and two supervisors in the investigation surrounding the post-Katrina deaths of civilians on the New Orleans’ Danziger Bridge.  And to round out the week it was revealed that Senator Vitter employed an aide on staff with a domestic violence arrest and represented the Senator on women’s issues. 

Never a dull moment in these parts. 

At a recent National Organization for Women’s conference in Boston, delegates approved a resolution asking the Senate to censure and expel Vitter.  While the chance of that happening is slim, I certainly think Vitter should be held accountable because no public official should keep someone on the public payroll with a history of violent behavior toward women. 

ABC News reported that Furer pleaded guilty in 2008 to three misdemeanors after police said he held a girlfriend against her will at knifepoint, cut her badly enough to require stitches and threatened to kill her.  It was also made public that Vitter retained him on staff regardless of the arrest and ironically made him the person in charge of women’s issues.  All of these revelations led to Furer’s resignation last month.

While the Senator may claim that Furer didn’t work directly on women’s issues, that is being disputed by local women’s organizations.  In particular, the Louisiana Coalition Against Domestic Violence said that she met with Furer two weeks before his resignation to press support for reauthorization of the Family Violence Prevention and Services Act, and that he was described as the Vitter aide who handled women’s issues.  In addition, a number of Washington information services also listed Furer as Vitter’s point man on women’s issues.  That’s just awesome, eh?

As a female constituent of Senator Vitter it certainly doesn’t give me much confidence that the Senator has my best interests at heart if he knowingly keeps a staff person on with a domestic violence background, and puts him in charge of the very issues he was arrested for. 

This is not the first time Senator Vitter has been in the spotlight for self-inflicted scandal when it comes to women.  A few years ago many will remember the DC Madam case, in which Vitter’s cell number turned up several times in Deborah Jeane Palfrey’s phone records.  Since then he has failed to come clean about his involvement with prostitutes in New Orleans and Washington, and evades any questioning about it.  

Senator Vitter is up for re-election this November and he owes an explanation to Louisiana’s female voters.  His wholesome family man act continues to get more and more tarnished and it’s long overdue for him to take issues facing women seriously.  

More importantly because actions speak louder than words, he should act in a way that illustrates he respects women and this election season gives him an opportunity to do just that.

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The Fun of Zodiac Signs

Posted by egehl on July 12, 2010

Last week I posted my fifth blog about the oil spill, so thought I would shift gears and write about a much lighter topic this time around.  Over the weekend I was talking with a friend about zodiac signs and how accurate they can be about our personalities.  I am a Libra (born in early October) and have to say my sign describes me to a tee, including both the good and bad traits.

At the heart of being a Libra, we like and crave balance which is why we are “the scales”.  Libras strive for balance in our personal and professional lives and also the world, which would explain why so many Libras work in social justice and nonprofit work.  I think inherently we are always conscious of imbalance whether it’s within ourselves or the world around us, and our daily work, goals and struggles aim to somehow rectify anything that feels off kilter. 

Libras tend to be diplomatic and even-tempered but also impatient about criticism and want to be liked by everyone, which is why we hate confrontation.  We love the finer things in life but can be very self-indulgent and spend way too much money.  We are impatient of routine and tend to be escapists so we need a change of scenery and time away from our daily grind (which would explain my insatiable travel habits).  Finally, we love to be sociable and can look at matters impartially to the benefit of ourselves and others.

I think all of us are at least a little bit intrigued by astrology because often times it’s uncannily true.  Zodiac signs, psychic readings and horoscopes are an interesting way to understand how our personalities impact our relationships and interactions in the workplace, with friends and family, who we date and life in general.  Granted astrology can’t do the deeper self-reflection and self-learning we all need to engage in, but it’s a way to learn more about ourselves.  

I have to admit that when I learn the zodiac sign of someone I have a little bit of an “aha” moment that helps me understand that person better.  Especially since I have friends that share the same sign, and it’s fun to realize that people of a particular sign have very similar traits. 

I think we also gravitate toward people of our own sign.  I meet a lot of Libras in my nonprofit work because it exercises our empathetic and diplomatic natures, and I am typically drawn to other Libras when meeting new people and making friends. 

Now that I’ve told you about my sign, what is your sign and does it describe you accurately?  

Do you like to learn the zodiac sign of others to get to know them better? 

Are you drawn to others with the same sign?

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Each one, teach one.

Posted by businesswom on July 10, 2010

Across the bridge and a minibus taxi ride away sits an unassuming women’s shelter with an amazing mountain view in Cape Town, South Africa.  The shelter is for women who have been victims of domestic violence and is in an area commonly known as being part of the Cape flats, underprivileged areas of the city that are a byproduct of the former apartheid regime.

The mountains of Cape Town

Mountainside in Cape Town

I’d link to the shelter’s website, but sometimes the site works and sometimes it doesn’t.  Internet is still somewhat of a luxury here.  And, in true lekker Cape Town style, that is ok because everyone is just laid back living life.  If you want to know more information, you just have to drop in.  Address?  Who needs it?  No one seems to use them  when giving directions around here.  So, just take the train to Retreat station, then the minibus to Seawinds/Rooibekkie Street.  Get off when you see a church, just past the field of tires, tin roof shacks, a few actual houses, and children playing.  Then, walk around the corner.  It’s the orange house.  But, I digress.

The shelter not only provides a woman and her children a place to stay, but it also provides her a way to build a new life.  The women learn beading and knitting, which are trades here that permeate South African fashion.  They also learn basic computer skills in weekly classes.  Similarly, in the Cape Town suburbs, another shelter does the same.  It not only provides refuge for the beaten and abused, but also teaches skills for life.  Here, the women learn resume writing, business planning, and sewing in designated classes.  Several minutes away in Observatory, Cape Town, a church hosts a women’s beading group that has been featured in national magazines.  The beading orders they receive provide income for the women who have learned the trade.  The World Cup created an influx of orders that is sure to add sustainability to their program.

It does not take much to teach someone a skill that we may already know.  We may even consider learning a new skill ourselves.  Many things we know as second nature may benefit the person next to us who has not had the opportunities that we’ve had.  I have experienced this sharing of gifts in South Africa first hand.  Each one, teach one.  Teach a woman a skill today.

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Hitting Too Close To Home

Posted by egehl on July 9, 2010

Sadly earlier this week the oil spill hit even closer to home.  On Monday, reports came out that tar balls were found in Lake Ponchartrain, the body of water directly adjacent to New Orleans.  It’s also the same lake that flooded thousands of homes after Hurricane Katrina because the levees breached.  As the oil makes its way closer to New Orleans and other parts of Louisiana this ongoing catastrophe is becoming more dire and bigger by the day.

For New Orleans and surrounding areas, having the oil reach our shores is a sucker punch after being through enough change and turmoil over the past 5 years.  Louisiana communities are still reeling from the 2005 and 2008 hurricanes that ravaged our communities, culture, way of life, jobs, homes, and businesses.  This oil spill has been like throwing salt on a wound that’s barely healing.  And many are saying the damage will be worse than Katrina.  

I think many of us feel almost desensitized to yet another catastrophe and the inevitable social, economic, environmental and health repercussions.   However while there will be many outcomes due to the spill one in particular that is very troubling is the mounting toll on mental health.  

Already we are seeing a rise in mental health related problems among people and children along the Gulf Coast, and it’s only the beginning.   Undoubtedly this latest disaster will rip apart the fragile fabric of our communities, as families feel the impact through division, frustration and helplessness. 

Louisiana’s Department of Health and Hospitals wants BP to pay 10 million dollars for mental health services such as outreach and counseling for people impacted by the spill.  BP says it’s reviewing the request to offer mental health services however unfortunately as of right now they are unwilling to pay for it.  If they decide not to pay for these services, there should be an outcry because mental health should not be ignored.

As the spill rages on anger, anxiety and uncertainty among families and communities continues to mount and will eventually manifest into addiction, divorce, depression, bitterness, friction within the community, and in the worst case scenario, suicide.  Unfortunately already we have seen how the spill has brought people to the brink when an Alabama fisherman hired by BP to help clean Gulf waterways committed suicide on board one of his own boats.

People are facing overwhelming feelings of hopelessness and a permanent dislocation from a lifestyle they love.  There is so much confusion and conflicting reports about what’s safe and where people should go for help.  And many feel like they have no place to turn to get reliable information. 

A colleague of mine has been speaking with community leaders from Alaska who experienced the Exxon Valdez firsthand.  Their stories and accounts are deeply worrisome and have given me chills.

They say that Alaskans are still struggling over 20 years later, and the mental health challenges felt by families in and around Prince William Sound has been enormous.   They have relayed how “social capital” and community trust broke down in hard-hit Cordova, Alaska, as people isolated themselves, grew depressed and watched relationships fall apart.  If the mental health toll was bad and ongoing in Alaska, I can’t imagine what it will be here with a disaster 20 times its size.  

Economically Louisiana engages in an odd, too close for comfort dance between the oil and gas and seafood industries.  My state prides itself as a place that produces oil and seafood, no matter how strange these bed fellows are.  And it’s not uncommon for one family to have members that are fishermen and oil rig workers.  Therefore families will be torn apart as they are pitted against each other for jobs and the fight over which industry should be more protected. 

Louisiana has been impacted by the two worst man-made disasters in our nation’s history.  And that has a different mental impact on people than natural disasters.   A therapeutic community emerges after a natural disaster after people quite blaming Mother Nature and God for what’s happened.  However in cases of “technological disasters” like the levees breaching after Katrina and this oil spill, where steps like rescue, recovery and rehabilitation remain elusive and blame comes easy, it’s a different and longer healing process. 

Fortunately because the state went through Katrina not long ago, we have community resources, nonprofit services, assistance agencies and trained professionals in place to deal with post-disaster therapy.  However it’s not enough. 

The resources and professionals that will be needed to deal with the thousands of people suffering in silence will far outweigh what BP is most likely willing to pay for, and the capacity of what organizations can offer.  Thus far Catholic Charities is overseeing much of the direct assistance and case management services associated with the spill however what they can do will be a drop in the bucket unless we can get numerous organizations involved and on board.  But that can’t happen without funding and right now the federal and state governments won’t fund this work unless BP is willing to reimburse them. 

I am worried that my fellow citizens are on the brink.  They have dealt with 4 hurricanes and now their way of life is being turned upside down, what more can they take? 

However what gives me hope is the amazing people I have met over the past three years who through thick and thin continue to love their homes and communities, culture and way of life and will do anything to rebuild and protect it.  Louisiana is worth preserving and fighting for because there’s no other place like it, and people here know that.  There are few people as strong and resilient as Louisianans and I know with the right help they can get through this latest hurdle.

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News to Chew On: Link Love for Lunch

Posted by sherrysaunders on July 9, 2010

Gender Fatigue? Are we done yet? [The Womens Foundation]

Is the recession changing benefits, not in a good way for women? [TheMamaBee.com]   

Law firms compensation systems are driving women out the door [Law]

VA easing rules covering veterans’ stress disorder [New York Times]

As women’s career paths change, make on ramping easy [Harvard Business Review]

Juanita Kreps, first female Secretary of Commerce, dies [New York Times]

Who cares about a career, not Gen Y [Fortune & CNN]

Why women don’t support each other [SF Women's Journal]

Returning vets must fight for old jobs [Washington Times]

Will women rule the world? Men were the main victims of the recession.  The recovery will be for women [Newsweek]

How to make the Workforce Investment Act work for women [American Progress]

 New Generation of women with new focus – work not children [Miami Herald]

Is part time work option a flex benefit or slippery slope. [wfnetwork]

American dream elusive for new generation [New York Times]

Gen Y Blogger: Don’t blame Gen Y for today’s decline in values [fdlreporter]

Girl Territory on the Supreme Court [Sacramento Bee]

Study says family friendly firms have more productive workers [Boston.com]

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Curb Appeal

Posted by joyinhome on July 8, 2010

It’s me again with my “Money Pit” adventures!

So, my first project was my yard…ohhh, I wish you could’ve seen the “before”; my intent was to take a picture of that urban jungle but my new landscaper, Manuel, had it cleared by the time I was back from the store. Don’t worry, I have some semi-before pics.image

imageimageAnyway, Manuel was referred and recommended to me by a friend (remember the tips). He came over to look at the yard, gave me estimates as well as ideas for the front and back. We went for sod in the front yard and grass seed for the shady back. I went to the nursery with Manuel to pick out flowers and to learn a little. BTW- my petunias, not doing so well, but the begonias are beautiful! I, of course went for colorful and unique. The flower beds also have a black mulch which I love.

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The change is AMAZING. I told him that friends/fam were going to walk right past my house. I have gone from the neighbor that everyone surely talked about, to having the best yard.

Disclaimer: I should have taken my “after” pics before the record heat wave. Oh, the sun…despite the fact that I have been diligent about watering the grass and flowers, parts of the grass are scorched. Manuel is going to replace those areas. Yay!

Thanks Manuel- I’m sure the mailman thanks you too! If you’re in the DMV and need a landscaper, contact him now!
Stone Mans
Landscaping Service & Construction
202449-0414

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